Saturday, June 1, 2013

Life and Inspirational words



In this huge globe, there are uncountable people who are beautified with diverse characteristics and attitudes. Human being, infact, possess natural characteristics of hateness and kindness but human beings by nature intend to love, respect and show sympathy. These human abstract qualities make up a matter what we called as sympathy in our life. Everyone desires and keep faith for humanity from others but before expecting it form others, they, themselves should practice it in real manner. For humanity the most prominent virtue is politeness. People believe that scholars are qualified people but the truly qualified people are those who are always well-mannered. They behave softly and heartily with others. We speak simply as we breathe. Thousands of words pour out of mouths as our thoughts, opinions, judgments and beliefs. A word carrying tremendous power gives out energy and create message which creates relations in others. So, one should know and think properly in the time of speaking because the words like the affirmation, encouragement, love, acceptance and appreciation will build self-esteem and confidence, possibilities and relationships. Tender and mild words are medicinal tablets to cure misery stricken hearts. Sometimes, the softness appears in vocabulary with sounds and pronunciation. When the heart is full, words are silent. The softness can be heard even without words in this time.

Two polite lexes of benevolent and courtesy are the means of healing for the wrecked hearts. Losers on the life constantly think on the terms what they hadn’t done, what they aren’t doing and they won’t do. This thought finally leads a man towards failure and makes a looser. An inspirational word encourages the depressed one or losers not to loose hearts and go on in the battle of life. These words have no cost at all but are very precious among the precious objects of the world. People defeated several times in the struggle of life too want to cease the race and continue the efforts if they got such words of motivation. From the failures in the past, people had also got such inspiring words from some well-wishers who rescued crest-fallen heart. Well wishers used to tell, you could reach destination achieving the goals. Their sweet words as refreshing as honey proved to be miracles in their every fall touching the depth of your soul. Such generous tendency on all occasions has vast impacts on people in need and they continue with their engrossed potentials to meet their desired aims and ambitions.

Just opponent, there is maximum probable risk of even committing suicide by such people if they aren’t well-understood and treated properly in case of their failure. Our light, disgusting and careless behaviors’ may unknowingly invite such terrible and unwanted incidents that are far beyond our imagination. That means supernatural magical power is existed in words that either encourage to best or spoil to worse to people depending on their use. Everyone speak after a year from their birth. We consider our speaking as our conscious thoughts but if infact we rarely stop and think about what we are saying, these words appear invaluable and disadvantageous to others. So one should speak a words especially inspirational word that will uplift and inspire, create and motivate forward momentum for the hearer.

Everyone should, therefore, continue this heartily relationship, keeping it intact forever. At the same time, I wish all to speak at least two sweet warm and stimulating words even if they aren’t capable of offering other opportunities and assistance to the deprived persons who come to their door with anticipation and reliance. I request all family members, collage, nearer of concerned people especially defeated and the depressed one not to harass them and not to make jokes and fun on their failure. Rather they all can make efficient efforts by providing necessary guidance and suggestions and motivate the victims with new hope, Zeal, conviction and enthusiasm to march towards the brighter horizon which they had absent to see before.
            

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Four pillars of love



One, who cannot love cannot live perhaps. A true achievement of love is just to love. Love in unconditional ways of life, life with unlimited meaning of life and love for insatiable desires of life. Love is to live and to live is to love. As it is known that love is the clamant need of live which is kept safely combining different four pillars. Simply a house, where we live, is strong and sustainable because of its strong pillar. In the way similar to architect a house of love, the different pillars i.e. pillar of love, pillar of trust, pillar of respect and pillar of understanding should be mandatory strong. Gap generally occurs in relation if even a single pillar seems abnormal among. Below are the descriptions of four pillar which are united together to build love house in the realm of love world.

Pillars of love: Self-love is beneficial. We have such a person in life whose presence is felt in relation. Reason is that you simply trust with him/her. We are social creature so that we can easily understand who will accept and will not accept or reject us. There are number of factors behind it. Therefore we should start relation with such a person who can clearly understand our value and interest and will not frustrate even in the time of loss or defeat. It has its own meaning to care after someone. If a person occupied special venue in heart, he/she should not denied telling the truth that one do himself inside the heart for other. But it is true that giving forever or lifetime only a person is a impossible matter. We cannot express our care to second person without giving but it doesn’t mean to care only for forever.

Pillars of trust: It is an easy task for someone and pretty difficult task for remaining to trust other especially to those person who are coerce to believe the unbelievable person. Reason is this, when such condition appears, one should solve it very carefully. Almost said trust and believe me. When you need me, I will always be ready to serve you. I am saying truly and promise that I won’t change. It is hard to believe the expression at that time but it is true enough because it gives us the feeling to support each other which represents the importance of truth in love.

Pillar of respect: It is another prominent factor. The word ‘respect’ means to be aware about the importance of desired person. We should know properly about the importance of self-respect before respecting others. If you cannot respect yourself how can other respect you? We should openly praise of mate, lovers and life partner. We should make him realization of our gladness about his efficiency and talency.

Pillar of Understanding: The possibility of these three pillars depends on the mutuality between each other or in this pillar. It takes time to form this pillar. One should have proper gossip, real identification and mutual acceptance to build this pillar. Your frank and open nature let your company to know you well. If your partner assigns some works, you should heartily say how you feel? If above all pillar are strong, your relation will be beautiful, real and sustainable.

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

How friends hurt?


By the different medium two person chained inside the boundary i.e. initially in the boundary of friendship. When the two persons are chained inside into the single boundary, it is no doubt to say that they are the friends. If the person supports you in all the matter in all the time don't think that he/she is your friends because they feel either with you or they want themselves to be pleased with you. It is to mean that that they are like the fat. Friend is that who only shares every happiness to you because he/she knows you will be sad seeing him/her in the trouble. But a real friend is that who know the problems of his friend without letting him to tell. If your friends joke with you, tease you or really want to kid with you by telling your bad and good things, then only think that he/she is your good and real friend. When you possess your real and good friend, you always show your love and devotion towards him/her. You share everything and every matter. When you truly love someone your greatest fear is that the loved one will stop loving you. But when that friend leave you, forget you or go far from you. You are badly hurted during that time. The things that you think the world become the worthless. You start suffered of being far or unknown with your friends. If the friends leaves you in the mid of your journey, you have to think that you have done the fault in the time of making friend or in the time when your friend win your heart or you win your friend’s heart. After sufferings you are counted as the bad because all your love, devotions and deeds are treated badly at that time. At that time you love with nothing more than the hope, you cry with nothing more than the tears. You will be investigated and asked a lot of questions for which you don’t have any answers to reply. So think more to choose the friend who will never hurt you, let you alone or will always be your company.

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

We, our life and the way of spending it




The definitions and thoughts of life is different with different populace.As far i know and as far i think the life which god gives us is the agglomerations of pains and joys,happiness and trouble and so many other things.To a greater extent i think the life is the journey where one collects a lot of experiences.But a little differ is there,whether the experiences a person gain is right or wrong,good or bad.If the persons gets or collects a right and a good experiences and apply in the life,then it is no doubt to say that he/she will reach in the height of success,otherwise he won't.The journey cannot be counted in the life if he/she squanders only with the joys.So the person should struggle much to know the real meanings of life.The victories of life isn't to gain the joys but to win the tears because the real feeling of life can be obtained there if it is deeply studied.all people think that they know the real meanings of life.but i don't supposed it because here are none to understand about the life.if we simply raise a question 'who wants to live happily?',who wants to go heaven?The answer is as such 'we'. So i think this isn't the life because all wants to go heaven but nobody wants to die,all wants to live happily but nobody wants to struggles.A person always impugn the trouble but never do the works to defense it by being a life-fencer.if we continuously face the trouble ,pain,we can't uphold that and can't sustain life.If we hardly exist it,a number of painful scribbles are scribbled in our wise heart.If we can't face the problems in life,it is sure that we can't find the success too.when we are hurt ed the problems many a times ,ferocity occurs which is malefic or noxious to us.It is terribly fated to human,if we can't use our life properly.A man can enjoy in the pallet of roses if he struggles much and leave away all the bad thoughts.Life is important if it is use properly otherwise it will be kibosh.At a last,my best circumcision to all is that the person should know the real meanings of life by analyzing the matters such as joy,grief,pain,trouble and so on and practice to live the happy and successful life.

Sunday, April 14, 2013

Love towards love letters



Love letter is the collection of love feelings written in a stylist and Romania style to express love expression where words are arranged in an unseperated way. It contains the internal feelings, sentiments and attraction. It is the report of beautiful heart touching feelings. Size and style of love letters are changing now-a-days however its meaning is constant. If we analyze the history, the story of love letter is long. Shakuntala wrote letters to Dushyanta in the leaves of peepal in the past and are sent tying in the leg of pigeon. Fast paced technology has swept up away the ancient traditions: letters today are written in copy, mobile, email, twitter and face book. Time, itself will show where the letters will be written in upcoming days. Reader and writer only know the sweetness of love letters abstruse inside the personal diary with the dry rose leaves. It tries to describe the depth of love. Love letters contain the different aspect such as attraction, giving, praising, happiness, curiosity, trouble, unsatifaction, confidence, tragedy and o on. I had unforgettable memories regarding the matter of writing love letters. I’m poetry nature person since my childhood so I love writing letters too. When I stepped to my teenagers, my friends requested to write letters to the person that their heart holds dear. They used to tell: we possess the words but you possess the ability to beat with words and to utilize them. So I heartily wrote letters for them in order to provide them maximal happiness. Afterwards they told me the answers answered from their lovers. The answers are almost positive i.e. the continuity of love with the praising of love letters. Love letters written by me contains the various aspect of love like love purpose, marriage purpose, praising of love, motivation by love, acceptation of mistakes and so on. Love is generally like the all season flower which caters fragrance nearby the lovers. Love letter contains the moments with lovers and changes bestowed by it.  In my personal feelings when one sows the seed of love in his/her soul, he/she used to write letters as the strong proof to show love.

In my opinion, love letters should be taken as the part of literature. There isn’t any other best option to express love beside love letter and there isn’t any boundary and limitations too. Love letters help to increase the importance of love in life. Feelings can be changed with time in different content but the subject “LOVE” is constant and unforgettable forever. Inside love letters we used to play hide and see games with words. I am writing love letters till where I describe the limitlessness and undying love. So, I humbly request to all to continue the process of writing love-letter passing throughout the history and become Romania.

Monday, April 1, 2013

The purest Love

Though the way of sharing love is different from person to person but the way of sharing our love to our special one is always same whom we are designed to make the life partner. We devote the true love from the inner core of heart and have the great dreams and imaginations towards the lovers one.We cannot see the tears in the innocent eyes as similar pain and trouble in the wise heart with whom we are endeared and loved. The person feels very much unhappy and uneasy when his partner talks or walks with the other person. We feel that the problems that she faced is the problem of our own. We think that we have lost the entire world when we hurts her heart knowingly or unknowingly. We always shows the readiness to give up the life which we afraid or terrified to serve our life for our own purpose. If somebody speak against him/her or opposed the flake of anger burn inside the heart. The person gets hurt when his special person chained with the problems and the person gets happy when his special person lies in the bed of roses. The greatest fear in the love is that whether the loved one will stop loving him or her. The bud of love bloom for her even she walks in a heart, even she makes to weep for the lifetime. But the person always prays for his lovers to give all the joys though she gave betrayed. So, the purest and true love in the lifetime is for that person whom we firstly love. The love that lead the successful living joining the heart of two persons into the one is always the purest love.

Sunday, March 31, 2013

Definition of Friendship

FRIENDSHIP
Among variety of valuable and precious objects in the universe,the most valuable and precious objects is "Friendship". One can define the meaning of friendship from their personal beliefs and thought but to the greater extent i feel that the person who have best friends and is in friendship only can give the best definition of it. Friendship is the relation between one to another where there is acceptation of each others company. Friendship indeed is the medicine of life who comforts us in our distress and co-operate us when we are in joys .In the true and Best relations,the heart of two intersect each other and become common. Similarly their single to single thoughts,  skills and feelings co-incide to one another. But now-a-days a true friend and true friendship is scarcely found. One used to co-operate with the other when his all the things are slightly out and decreasingly down,gap occurrence between them. Friendship is the connection which is generally connected after parental bonding's  and before pair boning with holding the stability of strong mutual affection between each other. Absence of friends  in life is emotionally damaging because the journey is lonely with the disappearance of friend who shows one a path of betterness and easiness and even walk a single piece of road to make it known and well-familiar. Friendship is the strongest form of an interpersonal bond that an acquaintanceship. Someone who gives us a reality check every now an then is a good friends who is best suited to have friendship.
Penultimate to the last, friendship isn't about whom you have known the longest, it is about who care and never left your side. Lastly to give the effective and meaningful definition of friendship in a single sentence i think "Friendship is the strongest bond between two people who sticks by one when other is down and celebrates when other is up with mutual co-ordination without any disintegration "

Definition of Love

In fact the combination of two vowel and two consonant letter 'L','O','V','E' is an intense feeling of deep affection. Definition of love is multiple as like the definition of life.The capacity to give of oneself to the others and the aspiration to be whole is called love i n an advance language which is proved as the universal definition for the love. The English word "love" refers a variety of distinct feelings,condition and attitudes ranging from satisfaction to attraction which also refers to an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment.

L=Luck of meeting strangers in lonely life
O=Outing of lonliness with begininng of new life 
V=Vacuity of trouble and pain after having new life
E=End of life obtaining meaningful valid love

A strong form of like is love which is the universal gravitational force that make compatible which is incompatible.Love today have traditionally been distinguished into various four forms namely :
1)The love of kith and kin
DEFINITION OF LOVE
 2)The love of friendship 
3)The love of sexual desire 
 4)self-emptying or divine love
 In the first distinguished love i.e. the love of kith and kin,the kinship maintained the relationship inside the boundary of family members where love becomes sensational feelings for the one. The love for the friendship is the special word of the heart containing the general word of truth,reality,purity,innocence an co-operation.The another kind of love is quiet different from others is the love of sexual desire.The love is mainly followed by the young teenagers just for the purpose of cohabitation. The last kind of love known as self emptying or divine love which b ears the pain of the world,believe lies and endures fortune.
My above view in order to conclude the love is the passion,loyalty,compassion ,giving an friendship on  fire patient. Love is perfect union of two souls where unconditional mutual acceptance occurs with caring about a person more than  one care about own. An unbreakable bonds,sincere loyalty,care and undying devotion bestowned without any obligation is love in my humble opinion.

Definition of Life

DEFINE THE MEANING OF LIFE
Very minute to the huge creatures are born on this planet with the natural phenomenon. Human have different opinions,assumptions and mundane questions about life likewise(where do we come from?What we are here for?where are we going ?what' the point of it all?) and variety of way to define it. The topics has been the matter of philosophical and scientific speculations from the time immemorial till now. To describe life in the simplest form,it is the period and time that an individual spends since their biological origination. According to the Buddhism our lives and the world are nothing  more but only the phenomenon that frequently rise and fall. Hinduism say that life is the heavenly gifted of god which would be passed under the rules and regulations of natural authority such as the co-operation with others,sharing joys and griefs at the both time of happiness and sadness,surpassing ourselves to the bright side and so on.Variations occur everywhere in the vary religion to define about life. Christian people have strong faith and belief that if there i no creator, there can be no meaning of life.The reason that we are here according to them is that god created us to have relationship with them and the life that we are having is the god's glory. In quarans of Islam the purpose of life is the standing purpose  and the worldly life is just a short odium of our life. Ideology from the combination of those above religions define that life is exactly the precious gift of god for all the creature of this planet to have relationship with him , to co-operate with the all who are here and to eradicate cosmic loneliness and civilization for it. Life has no meaning. Each of us has meaning and bring it to life.The essence of one life arises only after one comes to existence.
To sum up,thoughtful and conceptual person possess different argues to define about life. There is no final answer to the meaning of life although an individual argues specific definitions.My specific opinion apart from exactness is "Life is an motto-less,irrational and painful drive or journey from womb to tomb.