Four pillars of love

One, who cannot love cannot live perhaps. A true achievement of love is just to love. Love in unconditional ways of life, life with unlimited meaning of life and love for insatiable desires of life. Love is to live and to live is to love. As it is known that love is the clamant need of live which is kept safely combining different four pillars. Simply a house, where we live, is strong and sustainable because of its strong pillar. In the way similar to architect a house of love, the different pillars i.e. pillar of love, pillar of trust, pillar of respect and pillar of understanding should be mandatory strong. Gap generally occurs in relation if even a single pillar seems abnormal among. Below are the descriptions of four pillar which are united together to build love house in the realm of love world.

Pillars of love: Self-love is beneficial. We have such a person in life whose presence is felt in relation. Reason is that you simply trust with him/her. We are social creature so that we can easily understand who will accept and will not accept or reject us. There are number of factors behind it. Therefore we should start relation with such a person who can clearly understand our value and interest and will not frustrate even in the time of loss or defeat. It has its own meaning to care after someone. If a person occupied special venue in heart, he/she should not denied telling the truth that one do himself inside the heart for other. But it is true that giving forever or lifetime only a person is a impossible matter. We cannot express our care to second person without giving but it doesn’t mean to care only for forever.

Pillars of trust: It is an easy task for someone and pretty difficult task for remaining to trust other especially to those person who are coerce to believe the unbelievable person. Reason is this, when such condition appears, one should solve it very carefully. Almost said trust and believe me. When you need me, I will always be ready to serve you. I am saying truly and promise that I won’t change. It is hard to believe the expression at that time but it is true enough because it gives us the feeling to support each other which represents the importance of truth in love.

Pillar of respect: It is another prominent factor. The word ‘respect’ means to be aware about the importance of desired person. We should know properly about the importance of self-respect before respecting others. If you cannot respect yourself how can other respect you? We should openly praise of mate, lovers and life partner. We should make him realization of our gladness about his efficiency and talency.

Pillar of Understanding: The possibility of these three pillars depends on the mutuality between each other or in this pillar. It takes time to form this pillar. One should have proper gossip, real identification and mutual acceptance to build this pillar. Your frank and open nature let your company to know you well. If your partner assigns some works, you should heartily say how you feel? If above all pillar are strong, your relation will be beautiful, real and sustainable.