One,
who cannot love cannot live perhaps. A true achievement of love is just to
love. Love in unconditional ways of life, life with unlimited meaning of life
and love for insatiable desires of life. Love is to live and to live is to love.
As it is known that love is the clamant need of live which is kept safely
combining different four pillars. Simply a house, where we live, is strong and
sustainable because of its strong pillar. In the way similar to architect a
house of love, the different pillars i.e. pillar of love, pillar of trust,
pillar of respect and pillar of understanding should be mandatory strong. Gap
generally occurs in relation if even a single pillar seems abnormal among.
Below are the descriptions of four pillar which are united together to build
love house in the realm of love world.
Pillars
of love: Self-love is beneficial. We have such a person in life whose presence
is felt in relation. Reason is that you simply trust with him/her. We are
social creature so that we can easily understand who will accept and will not
accept or reject us. There are number of factors behind it. Therefore we should
start relation with such a person who can clearly understand our value and
interest and will not frustrate even in the time of loss or defeat. It has its
own meaning to care after someone. If a person occupied special venue in heart,
he/she should not denied telling the truth that one do himself inside the heart
for other. But it is true that giving forever or lifetime only a person is a
impossible matter. We cannot express our care to second person without giving
but it doesn’t mean to care only for forever.
Pillars
of trust: It is an easy task for someone and pretty difficult task for
remaining to trust other especially to those person who are coerce to believe
the unbelievable person. Reason is this, when such condition appears, one
should solve it very carefully. Almost said trust and believe me. When you need
me, I will always be ready to serve you. I am saying truly and promise that I
won’t change. It is hard to believe the expression at that time but it is true
enough because it gives us the feeling to support each other which represents
the importance of truth in love.
Pillar
of respect: It is another prominent factor. The word ‘respect’ means to be
aware about the importance of desired person. We should know properly about the
importance of self-respect before respecting others. If you cannot respect
yourself how can other respect you? We should openly praise of mate, lovers and
life partner. We should make him realization of our gladness about his
efficiency and talency.
Pillar
of Understanding: The possibility of these three pillars depends on the
mutuality between each other or in this pillar. It takes time to form this
pillar. One should have proper gossip, real identification and mutual
acceptance to build this pillar. Your frank and open nature let your company to
know you well. If your partner assigns some works, you should heartily say how
you feel? If above all pillar are strong, your relation will be beautiful, real
and sustainable.
